Chapter 1: The Overuse of Hyperbole

I’ve reached my limit with hyperbole! Why does everything have to be so exaggerated?

This is a critical matter, so hear me out! The sheer volume of absurdity I encounter daily is overwhelming—it's almost apocalyptic in scale. I can sense the eye rolls, but I know you understand where I'm coming from. This is hyperbole at its finest.

Of course, the stakes are not truly life or death; while it's true that we are all on a countdown from the moment we're born, it's unlikely that language misuse will be my downfall. The term "hyperbole" originates from the Ancient Greek word ???????? (huperbol?), which translates to "to throw beyond," and has evolved to signify exaggeration.

But how did we arrive at a point where hyperbole is woven into the fabric of our language? When did we start embellishing our everyday communication? How did "awesome" transition from something that evokes awe to just another way to say nice?

And before you challenge me, let me clarify: I chose the name Awesomely Adept because I am genuinely impressed by the natural talents of multi-passionate individuals, and I wanted a title that captured that essence!

I’m guilty of this myself, often resorting to LOLs, ROTFLs, and excessive punctuation in my writing. However, in reality, my reactions are more akin to a broad smile, a subtle chuckle, and a hint of excitement. This is largely due to my introverted nature.

Interestingly, my inclination for precise language aligns with this trait. Camiel Beukeboom, an Assistant Professor at Vrije Universiteit in Amsterdam, has dedicated much of his research to examining the interplay between social psychology and language.

In one of his studies, Beukeboom and his team presented a group of 40 participants with five photographs. They were instructed to describe these images in as much detail as they wished, without any time constraints. Their responses were documented.

A few days later, these same participants completed a personality questionnaire. The findings indicated that those who identified as more introverted tended to use detailed, concrete language, stating things like, "the man is handing a red cup to the child" and noting specific observations, such as "everyone is smiling except the man in the back row."

In contrast, extroverted individuals used broader, more abstract descriptions. For example, they might say, "the man really loves the child by making sure they have everything they need" or "everyone is so happy except for that one sad guy." This illustrates how introverts and extroverts interpret experiences differently, which can influence how they are perceived by others.

The reserved manner in which I typically communicate could lead an introvert to view me as trustworthy, while an extrovert might misinterpret it as unfriendliness. It seems that, on a subconscious level, we are aware of these dynamics. To avoid being judged as inadequate from behind our screens, we often gravitate toward more extroverted expressions and hyperbole to fit in.

In essence, we seek a comfortable position along the introvert-extrovert spectrum. As language continues to evolve, it appears we are leaning increasingly toward extroversion.

Why this shift has occurred remains unclear, but I promise to share any insights I uncover. For now, hyperbole is here to stay, and my introverted self will just have to adapt!

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