Chapter 1: The Calm Before the Change

Recently, I've entered a serene phase in my life, one that feels like healing. I'm realizing that I'm prepared for a new chapter, whatever that may entail. I've come across a few nearly ideal apartments in cities different from where I currently reside, and I find myself invigorated by the opportunities that a fresh location might present.

I no longer feel anxious or stressed; I trust that we will eventually find ourselves where we are meant to be. I've been creating a supportive environment tailored to my needs, which includes my virtual 12-step program. This support system will accompany me wherever I go.

While I am stepping back in some respects, I believe the program is beneficial, though I may not follow it in the conventional manner—even online. I've come to understand that this is perfectly acceptable.

I've often neglected the fact that there isn't a singular way to approach life. Society tends to dictate how things should be done, but we must live our lives true to ourselves. Otherwise, what is the purpose?

I generally enjoy my life, despite its complexities. The world is intricate, and I've allowed it to affect my existence, including my spiritual journey. I refuse to permit that any longer. My spiritual journey is personal; it exists solely between me and God.

Dan Foster recently shared an insightful article titled "5 Steps To Becoming Who You Really Are." He reflects on the idea that, if we meet Jesus one day, He might ask, “Why weren’t you more like yourself? That’s who I designed you to be.” This made me pause and reconsider.

We often hear that we should aspire to be like Jesus, but perhaps our focus should be on becoming who we were truly meant to be. While emulating Jesus is important, we shouldn't confine ourselves to please others without expecting to confront the question of why we weren't more authentic.

Judgmental individuals will always judge, but that reflects on them, not us. It's time to break free from the constraints of others' expectations and instead embrace our true selves.

I no longer apologize for who I am or who I aspire to be. Ultimately, what matters is that if the day comes for me to reflect on my life, I can proudly say I lived authentically.

Life may not always be tidy, but as Judy Walker said in her work "Meditations: Hurts And I Love Every Damn Second Of It," the Universe welcomes us as we are. All we need to do is show up, regardless of the messiness.

Are you presenting your true self, or is someone else taking your place? I would love to hear your experiences in the comments.

In this video, Wendy W. Nelson explores the journey of becoming the person you were destined to be. She shares insights on personal growth and authenticity.

Chapter 2: Letting Go of Expectations

This video discusses the importance of stepping away from societal expectations and embracing your true identity.